If possible, they should proceed with the wedding sooner.
“They say that if you love each other for a long time, don’t rush into marriage so that you can fully understand each other’s hearts.” This saying is also true. If you rush into marriage, there’s a risk that you might not know each other well enough, leading to misunderstandings. After getting married, you may be faced with separation.
However, once you are engaged but delay the marriage, this is generally not a good idea. The old saying goes, “The longer you wait, the sourer it gets.” This phrase is not different from how it applies to food—if kept too long, it turns sour and spoils, becoming inedible. Similarly, delaying an engagement for years is not advisable, as it often leads to various problems, or people might start gossiping, leading to a breakup.
Many couples have ended up with nothing but a broken engagement or an empty title as “almost married” or just living together. Life as an engaged couple is full of challenges. Don’t make excuses like waiting until you have enough money or waiting until you know each other well enough. Sometimes, delaying things month after month, year after year, only creates more bad feelings between the couple. One partner might think the other isn’t serious, while the other feels increasingly misunderstood.
Sometimes, no matter how long you try to understand each other, it doesn’t guarantee you’ll fully know each other. In some cases, the more you try to understand each other, the less you actually do, and the harder it becomes to please each other. Additionally, life as an engaged couple is vulnerable to the influence of others’ opinions and can easily be affected by gossip or rumors.
“The longer you wait, the sourer it gets!” says the old proverb. Therefore, couples who are engaged shouldn’t delay the marriage for too long.
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